Statements and Vows

The material on this page is to help you decide what you want to do with Promise Statements or Vows. There will be several more options here for you to pick from or to use to help you create your own statements or vows. Remember that the difference between the statements and vows is that the statements are intended to be spoken in unison rather than separately.

Promise Statement Options

Please note that these were originally used as groom and bride statements and not spoken in unison. This is also an option or you can simply steal from this list for what you want to say to one another together.

Ken

I promise to reassure you when you are feeling anxious or afraid.

I promise no matter how far away I am I will always come back to you.

I promise to never go to bed angry even if we have to stay up all night.

I promise to tell you when something is wrong so together we can work toward a solution.

I promise to always be there for you, you’ll never have to face anything alone. 

I promise to pick you up every time you fall down and need help getting back up.

I promise to never look back, except to see how far we’ve come.

I promise to always make our love a priority, even when life gets hectic.

Barbie

I promise to always encourage you to seek adventure and to live your dreams.

I promise to be open to trying new things, even if they scare me. 

I trust that you’ll always keep me safe.

I promise that however long you might be away that I’ll always wait for you.

I promise that I will always do what I can to make you happy.

I promise to respect your decisions, even if I don’t agree with them.

I promise to trust you always, even when I’m feeling insecure.

I promise to be patient, even when I might feel like tearing my hair out.

I promise to cherish every moment I get to spend with you.

More Vow Options

STYLE ONE (Traditional)

In the presence of God and before these witnesses, I, Ken/Barbie take you Ken/Barbie to be my wife/husband , to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; in joy and in sorrow; to love and to cherish; and to be faithful to you alone, as long as we both shall live. 

STYLE TWO 

Ken/Barbie, in the presence of God and before these witnesses, I take you to be wife/husband. I give you my hand, I give you my love, I give you myself. I pledge to stand by you as long as we live. Come, travel with me, and share the road both when it is hard and when it easy. 

STYLE THREE (Contemporary)

In the presence of God, and before our family and friends I, Ken/Barbie take you Ken/Barbie to be my wife/husband; to laugh with you in joy; to grieve with you in sorrow; to support you in sickness and in health; to grow with you in love; and to be faithful to you alone, as long as we both shall live. 

STYLE FOUR (Reformed)

I take you Ken/Barbie to be my wife/husband, and these things I promise you: I will be faithful to you and honest with you. I will respect, trust, help, and care for you. I will share my life with you. I will forgive you as we have been forgiven, and I will try with you better to understand ourselves, the world and God; through the best and worst of what is to come, until death parts us. 

STYLE FIVE (Palumbo)

I, Ken, take you, Barbie, to be my wife, knowing in my heart that you will always be my friend, my partner in life and my one true love. On this special day, I give to you in the presence of God, my promise to stay by your side as your husband, in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, as well as through the good times and the bad. I promise to love you without reservation, to honor and respect you, to provide for your needs the best that I can, to protect you from harm, to comfort you in times of distress, to grow with you in mind and spirit, to always be open and honest with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live. 

I, Barbie, take you, Ken, to be my husband, knowing in my heart that you will continue to be my best friend, my partner in life and my one true love. On this special day, I give to you in the presence of God, my promise to stay by your side as your wife, in sickness and health, in joy and in sorrow, as well as through the good times and the bad. I promise to love you without reservation, to honor and respect you, to comfort and support you each and every day, to laugh with you and cry with you, to grow with you in mind and spirit, to always be open and honest with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live. 

STYLE SIX (Tomash)

Ken/Barbie I love you and on this day I wed you. Not just for who you are, but for who I am when I’m with you. I love you not for what you’ve done with your life but for what you’re doing with mine. I love you for making me good, happy and whole. Because, Ken/Barbie that is what you do. Without a word.  Without a gesture.  Without a doubt.  Just by being yourself.   Such a simple thing… but no one else in the world can do it.  Only you…. forever.  This day, before our family and friends With joy in my heart I pledge myself to you as your husband / wife promising to love you to cherish our moments together for now and forever.